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  • Bed Bugs and Travel: Are People Overreacting?

    Bed Bugs and Travel: Are People Overreacting?

    I was scrolling through Facebook last night, lurking in solo travel groups (as you do), when I came across yet another post about bed bugs and travel. Someone was in full-blown meltdown mode – “I found one bed bug in my hostel, am I doomed? Should I fly straight home? Am I carrying them around the country? HELP!!”

    Honestly, I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve seen posts like this. And don’t get me wrong, bed bugs are annoying, but the sheer level of hysteria surrounding them is something else. The way some people talk, you’d think one sighting means you’ll be patient zero for a worldwide infestation, single handedly carrying bed bugs across borders like some kind of pestilence-ridden nomad.

    Here’s the thing: I’m pretty sure I’ve stayed in places with bedbugs while traveling before. In fact, given how much I travel, I’d bet money on it. And yet, somehow, I’ve never brought them with me, never had to burn my luggage in a sacrificial cleansing ritual, and – shockingly – have never had to abandon a long-term trip just because one hostel had them.

    So, let’s talk about bed bugs and travel, the reality of their spread, and whether you actually need to set your backpack on fire the next time you suspect one crawled within a five-mile radius of you.

    How Do Bed Bugs Spread?

    First, let’s get scientific for a moment. Bed bugs do not live on your body like lice or fleas. They don’t cling to your hair or hide in your clothes as you walk down the street. They’re lazy little things that like to stay put in mattresses, cracks, and crevices, only coming out when it’s time for a snack (which, unfortunately, is you).

    The only way they really travel with you is by hitching a ride in your belongings – luggage, backpacks, or clothes that have been left sitting in an infested area for long periods. But even then, just because you stay somewhere with bed bugs doesn’t automatically mean you’ll bring them with you. The way some people react, you’d think one sighting means you have no choice but to cut your trip short and return home in disgrace.

    Can You Actually Spot Bed Bugs?

    Technically, yes. But in reality, it’s tricky, and over analysing every mark on your bed is just going to stress you out.

    Signs of Bed Bugs in a Hostel or Hotel

    Some common signs people swear by include:

    • Tiny blood spots on your sheets (but let’s be real, this could be from anything).
    • Dark specks that could be bed bug droppings (or just regular dust, dirt, or lint).
    • A musty smell (hard to distinguish in a shared dorm that already smells questionable).
    • Waking up with bites in a line or cluster (except that some people don’t react to bites at all, and others react to everything).

    While these signs can indicate bed bugs, they can also be misidentified so easily that you’ll just end up panicking over nothing. Instead of scrutinising every inch of your bedding, it’s better to take simple precautions – like keeping your luggage closed and washing your clothes in hot water if you suspect a problem. That way, whether there are bed bugs or not, you’re covered without freaking yourself out.

    How to Avoid Bringing Bed Bugs Home

    Now, just because the risk isn’t as extreme as people make it out to be doesn’t mean you should be reckless. I do have a few basic habits that probably help me avoid any unwanted stowaways:

    1. Keep your suitcase closed

    If I suspect bed bugs, I just don’t leave my suitcase open. Clothes stay inside, zipped up. Simple.

    2. Don’t dump your stuff all over the bed

    If I arrive somewhere and think, hmm, this place looks a little sketchy, I won’t immediately throw all my belongings on the bed. I’ll keep things off the floor or use a hard surface instead.

    3. Wash clothes after staying in questionable places

    When I do laundry, I use hot water if possible, since bedbugs and their eggs die at 50°C (122°F). If I really thought I had them, I’d just throw my clothes in a dryer on high heat.

    4. Don’t panic

    Seriously, people act like bed bugs mean the apocalypse. If I were on a months-long trip and encountered them, I wouldn’t be flying home to “isolate” all my belongings like I was returning from a nuclear disaster zone. Worst case? I’d take precautions, wash what I can, maybe leave my backpack in the sun for a while (heat kills them), and carry on with my life.

    A panicked solo traveler in a hostel goes overboard, using a blowtorch on his suitcase to fight bed bugs, while horrified guests watch. A humorous exaggeration of overreacting to bed bugs while traveling.

    What to Do If You Bring Bed Bugs Home

    If, against the odds, you do end up bringing bed bugs home, here’s what actually helps:

    Quarantine your luggage

    If you’re worried, don’t bring your suitcase straight into your bedroom.

    Wash and heat-dry everything

    High heat is a guaranteed bed bug killer.

    Vacuum your suitcase

    Just to be extra safe.

    Monitor for signs

    Bites alone aren’t proof of bed bugs, and a single bite doesn’t mean infestation. Look for actual evidence before losing it.

    What Not to Do If You Find Bed Bugs While Travelling

    Burn all your belongings in a ritual cleansing fire.

    Book an emergency flight home because your travel dreams are now ruined.

    Cry in a hostel bathroom while other travelers look on in confusion.

    Final Thoughts: Are People Overreacting About Bed Bugs?

    In my opinion, yes. Of course, you should be careful. Nobody wants to deal with bed bugs. But the sheer level of panic I see online about them is over the top. Most people who encounter bed bugs while traveling never actually bring them home. And yet, I keep seeing posts where people are being told to fly home immediately and isolate their belongings like they’ve just been exposed to some kind of biohazard.

    So, if you find yourself in a place with bed bugs, take reasonable precautions, don’t overthink it, and most importantly – don’t let it ruin your trip. The world is full of incredible places to explore, and a couple of tiny, annoying bugs aren’t worth the drama.

    Have You Encountered Bed Bugs While Traveling?

    What do you think? Have you ever stayed somewhere with bed bugs? Did you survive without burning your backpack? Let me know in the comments!

    Before You Go…

    If you’re planning your own solo trip my Solo Travel Lifeline might come in handy. It’s like having a travel buddy in your pocket – without the awkward small talk.

    Need a ready-made plan? Check out my 3-day travel itineraries for popular destinations – they’re packed with tips and can save you a lot of guesswork. If you want something more personalised, I also offer custom itinerary planning to make sure your trip goes smoothly.

    Need a place to stay? I’ve got some handy affiliate links for Booking.com and Expedia to make planning a bit easier. If you book through them, I may earn a small commision – at no extra cost to you – so you’d be helping a fellow traveller out.

    And if you want real time action, follow me on Instagram, TikToK or join the Sisterhood of Solo Travellers on Facebook for tips, stories, and the occasional travel mishap.

    If you’re interested in Southeast Asia, you might enjoy my posts about Phu Quoc and Siem Reap.

    Still worried about bed bugs? At least now you have a conversation starter! If you’re heading off on a solo trip, here’s how to meet fellow travellers (hopefully ones without itchy stories to share): How to Meet people When Solo Travelling

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  • How to Meet People When Solo Travelling (Without Trying Too Hard)

    How to Meet People When Solo Travelling (Without Trying Too Hard)

    I’m not someone who needs to meet people when I travel. I prefer mountains over small talk and could happily sit alone in a remote spot for six months without feeling lonely. But somehow, without even trying, I’ve met people who have become long-term friends—both online and in real life.

    So if you’re stressing about how to meet people while solo travelling, my best advice? Stop trying so hard. The more you force it, the more unnatural it feels – for you and for everyone around you. Connections happen naturally, just like they do at home. Not every person you meet is meant to be your travel buddy, and that’s okay.

    Solo Travel Is Just Real Life in a Microcosm

    Solo travellers sometimes expect to be instantly included in every group plan, but that’s not how it works. If you weren’t invited to dinner or an excursion, it doesn’t mean you were excluded – it just means people naturally gravitate toward others they have things in common with. Maybe you’re a different age group, have different interests, or simply don’t click. It’s not personal. It’s just life.

    The more relaxed you are about this, the easier it becomes. You don’t have to “work” at making friends – just be open to things happening naturally.

    Solo travellers connecting over drinks at a lively pub, a casual and fun way to meet people when travelling alone.

    The Best Ways to Meet People (Without Awkwardness)

    Stay in Social Accommodations (Even If You Hate Hostels)

    I don’t stay in hostels often, but they are great for meeting people. Common areas and dorms naturally encourage conversation. But if hostels aren’t your thing, bungalows, guesthouses, and small hotels can be just as social. I’ve unintentionally met people while staying in bungalows, homestays, and even campsites – just through casual interactions.

    Do Excursions & Group Activities

    Signing up for a day trip, a walking tour, or a cooking class automatically puts you in a group of people with shared interests. Some of the best travel friendships happen because you just happened to be in the same tuk-tuk for a day.

    Visit the Same Café or Bar Regularly

    If you’re in a place for a few days, find a local café or bar and go back a couple of times. Familiarity builds conversations – you’ll start recognising the staff, and other regulars might strike up a chat.

    Be Open to Saying Yes (But Don’t Force It)

    A lot of my travel friendships have come from just saying yes to an invite or a plan. If someone asks if you want to grab food or join them for an activity, and you feel comfortable, go for it. But don’t force yourself to be social if you’re not feeling it – it’s fine to be selective.

    Meeting People Before You Even Travel

    Sometimes, connections start before you even leave home. Travel forums, Reddit communities, and Facebook groups are full of solo travellers looking to connect, share advice, or even meet up. I’ve had conversations in travel forums that led to real-life meetups in different countries months later.

    If you like the idea of meeting people in advance or just want to chat with other solo travellers, consider joining a group like Sisterhood of Solo Travellers – a community for women over 40 who love solo travel, share advice, and connect before hitting the road!

    A group of silhouetted travellers standing on a hill against a golden sunset, symbolising the natural ways to meet peole while solo traverlling.

    Final Thoughts: Meeting People When You Solo Travel

    Meeting people while travelling solo isn’t about having the perfect strategy – it’s about being open to the experiences that come your way. You don’t have to be the most outgoing person in the world, and you definitely don’t need to force interactions. Treat solo travel like real life, stay open to opportunities, and you’ll find connections happening naturally.

    And if you don’t meet anyone? That’s okay too. The best part of solo travel is that you can make every experience exactly what you want it to be.

    Have you met people while travelling solo? Share your experiences in the comments!

    Before You Go…

    If you’re planning your own solo trip my Solo Travel Lifeline might come in handy. It’s like having a travel buddy in your pocket – without the awkward small talk.

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    Check out my blog post about Solo Travel in Austria for inspiration!

    Need a ready-made plan? Check out my 3-day travel itineraries for popular destinations – they’re packed with tips and can save you a lot of guesswork. If you want something more personalised, I also offer custom itinerary planning to make sure your trip goes smoothly.

    Need a place to stay? I’ve got some handy affiliate links for Booking.com and Expedia to make planning a bit easier. If you book through them, I may earn a small commision – at no extra cost to you – so you’d be helping a fellow traveller out.

    And if you want real time action, follow me on Instagram, TikToK or join the Sisterhood of Solo Travellers on Facebook for tips, stories, and the occasional travel mishap.

    If you’re interested in Southeast Asia, you might enjoy my posts about Phu Quoc and Siem Reap.

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