Tag: solo adventures

  • Solo Travel in Battambang, Cambodia: Not Quite Bliss, But Definitely a Story

    Solo Travel in Battambang, Cambodia: Not Quite Bliss, But Definitely a Story

    After two weeks in Siem Reap, I was ready to move on and travel solo in Battambang. Not because I’d had enough, but because my hotel was booked out for Chinese New Year and I had to leave. I’d been ill, I’d seen a lot, and although I probably could’ve wandered Angkor Wat for another month, it was time. Phnom Penh was my end goal, but Battambang felt like a stop I shouldn’t skip, mainly for the Killing Caves.

    Getting there wasn’t awful, just not straightforward. I wasn’t well enough to navigate coaches, especially with most options running through Phnom Penh first. That seemed pointless, so I booked a taxi. It cost £60 and took about three and a half hours. The driver stopped so I could go to the loo halfway, which is common in Cambodia. There’s always somewhere to stop, usually near someone’s cousin’s café.

    The Hostel I Ended Up In (And Shouldn’t Have)

    Accommodation was tricky because of Chinese New Year. The only place I could find with a pool, which is important to me especially in cities, was a hostel. I’d never stayed in one before. The moment we started driving there, I knew I’d made a mistake. It wasn’t in the main part of Battambang but tucked away down rough streets full of stray dogs and kids setting off firecrackers.

    The hostel itself had a good atmosphere and I used the pool every day, which was probably the best thing about it. But I was absolutely convinced they had bedbugs. They didn’t offer any vegan food, and no one really knew what vegan meant. There was a fully vegan place in town, but the food was honestly dreadful. I did later discover that the gym café next door to the hostel could make something vegan-ish, but I had no idea it was there at first. It was very random.

    View looking up at the opening in the Killing Caves of Battambang, Cambodia, where victims were thrown to their deaths during the Khmer Rouge regime.
    Looking up from inside the Killing Caves in Battambang. This opening at the top of the cave was where victims were thrown during the Khmer Rouge era.

    Phare Ponleu Selpak : The Circus With a Story

    The circus was a real highlight. It’s not the main one you see in Siem Reap. This is the original school where the performers are trained. It was founded by a French woman and Cambodian refugees after the Khmer Rouge, to give kids access to education, creativity, and a different kind of future.

    The show I saw was called Red, and it was about the Khmer Rouge. It was powerful and emotional. There was no narration, just raw physical storytelling. I had a vague idea of what was happening, but even without full context, you could feel the weight of it.

    Just a heads-up: The next photo shows human remains from Cambodia’s Killing Caves.

    Glass case filled with human skulls and bones inside a memorial at the Killing Caves of Battambang, Cambodia.
    A sobering memorial at the Killing Caves of Battambang. A stark reminder of Cambodia’s dark past under the Khmer Rouge.

    The Killing Caves: Confusing, Sad, but Worth It

    This was the main reason I went to Battambang. My tuk-tuk driver dropped me at the bottom of a mountain, pointed vaguely to the top, and said, “Come back down those steps for 5 o’clock to see the bats.” That was the extent of the plan.

    So up I went, completely unguided. I had no idea which caves were which. There were multiple temples, shrines, and detours. At one point, I found a cave that I was definitely sure was a killing cave. There was a glass cabinet filled with skulls, which made it very clear.

    This cave was one of the Killing Caves, used by the Khmer Rouge during their regime (1975 to 1979). Prisoners were taken to the top of the mountain and thrown through a hole in the roof to die below. Some were killed beforehand, others were beaten and left to fall. Their remains were later collected and placed in the cabinet I’d just seen. The cave felt quiet, confusing, eerie, and overwhelmingly sad. I wasn’t prepared for how it would feel to stand in a place where something so horrific had happened: it was hard to process.

    I left, walked up further and came across a disused temple at the top of the mountain, which offered a lovely view and had monkeys everywhere. There were stalls selling drinks, insects, and snacks, but nothing vegan. I was thirsty and tired, so I bought a drink and wandered for a bit.

    Eventually I found what I think was the actual cave temple. It was beautiful, peaceful, and one I’d really wanted to see. But I rushed through it, thinking I had to get down the steps for 5pm sharp.

    The Bats (Eventually)

    I flew down the stairs thinking I was about to miss something amazing. The tuk-tuk driver had stationed himself far from the action, at what I suspect was his friend’s beer stall. I sat with him because I didn’t know any better, until around 7pm when someone finally shouted, “The bats are coming out!”

    I ran over and managed to catch them, just. It wasn’t quite the spectacular moment I’d expected. It was pitch dark, you couldn’t really see much, and the smell coming out of the cave was absolutely vile. Still, it was an experience.

    Wandering Battambang

    I spent the next day or two walking around. The river didn’t have the charm of Siem Reap’s. Battambang felt hectic and heavily polluted. I was still sick, which made it harder to enjoy, and Chinese New Year meant karaoke, fireworks, and pigs laid out as offerings on tables everywhere. There were some interesting statues on roundabouts, and I wandered around to look at a few. I’m sure there were other things to do, but I didn’t find them.

    I skipped the bamboo train. It just sounded like a tourist trap and not in a fun way.

    Monkeys near the temple viewpoint above the Killing Caves in Battambang, with a hazy view over the city in the distance. Seen during Solo Travel in Battambang
    A quiet moment at the temple viewpoint above the Killing Caves. Monkeys wandered freely as the city of Battambang stretched out in the distance.

    Getting to Phnom Penh

    When it was time to leave, I booked a cheap ticket, about five or six pounds. A tuk-tuk picked me up and took me somewhere vague where a tiny minivan turned up, already packed. They squeezed in all of us and our bags, and off we went.

    The trip took hours and stopped constantly. By the time we arrived in Phnom Penh, I was exhausted and the air was thick. I tried to use Grab but realised I should’ve just taken a local tuk-tuk after a 40 minute wait. The pollution was overwhelming. At the time, Phnom Penh had a higher air pollution rating than Delhi. You could feel it in your lungs the second you stepped outside.

    Statue of Ta Dambong, the guardian figure of Battambang, holding a staff at a roundabout in Cambodia. Seen during Solo Travel in Battambang
    Ta Dambong Wat Pith: Battambang’s iconic guardian statue at the heart of the city.

    Final Thoughts

    Solo travel in Battambang wasn’t the easiest part of my Cambodia trip. I’m glad I went, but I wouldn’t rush back. If you go, take a guide for the Killing Caves, don’t expect much in the way of food if you are vegan, and be ready for vague instructions and unexpected smells. But sometimes, that’s just part of the story.

    Before You Go…

    If you’re planning your own solo trip my Solo Travel Lifeline might come in handy. It’s like having a travel buddy in your pocket – without the awkward small talk.

    Need a ready-made plan? Check out my 3-day travel itineraries for popular destinations – they’re packed with tips and can save you a lot of guesswork. If you want something more personalised, I also offer custom itinerary planning to make sure your trip goes smoothly.

    Need a place to stay? I’ve got some handy affiliate links for Booking.com and Expedia to make planning a bit easier. If you book through them.

    And if you want real time action, follow me on Instagram, TikToK or join the Sisterhood of Solo Travellers on Facebook for tips, stories, and the occasional travel mishap.

    If you’re interested in Southeast Asia, you might also enjoy my posts about Koh Lanta and Phu Quoc.

    If you’re planning a big trip, don’t miss my guide on how to survive long-haul flights in economy—it’s painfully honest and full of hard-earned wisdom.

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  • How to Meet People When Solo Travelling (Without Trying Too Hard)

    How to Meet People When Solo Travelling (Without Trying Too Hard)

    I’m not someone who needs to meet people when I travel. I prefer mountains over small talk and could happily sit alone in a remote spot for six months without feeling lonely. But somehow, without even trying, I’ve met people who have become long-term friends—both online and in real life.

    So if you’re stressing about how to meet people while solo travelling, my best advice? Stop trying so hard. The more you force it, the more unnatural it feels – for you and for everyone around you. Connections happen naturally, just like they do at home. Not every person you meet is meant to be your travel buddy, and that’s okay.

    Solo Travel Is Just Real Life in a Microcosm

    Solo travellers sometimes expect to be instantly included in every group plan, but that’s not how it works. If you weren’t invited to dinner or an excursion, it doesn’t mean you were excluded – it just means people naturally gravitate toward others they have things in common with. Maybe you’re a different age group, have different interests, or simply don’t click. It’s not personal. It’s just life.

    The more relaxed you are about this, the easier it becomes. You don’t have to “work” at making friends – just be open to things happening naturally.

    Solo travellers connecting over drinks at a lively pub, a casual and fun way to meet people when travelling alone.

    The Best Ways to Meet People (Without Awkwardness)

    Stay in Social Accommodations (Even If You Hate Hostels)

    I don’t stay in hostels often, but they are great for meeting people. Common areas and dorms naturally encourage conversation. But if hostels aren’t your thing, bungalows, guesthouses, and small hotels can be just as social. I’ve unintentionally met people while staying in bungalows, homestays, and even campsites – just through casual interactions.

    Do Excursions & Group Activities

    Signing up for a day trip, a walking tour, or a cooking class automatically puts you in a group of people with shared interests. Some of the best travel friendships happen because you just happened to be in the same tuk-tuk for a day.

    Visit the Same Café or Bar Regularly

    If you’re in a place for a few days, find a local café or bar and go back a couple of times. Familiarity builds conversations – you’ll start recognising the staff, and other regulars might strike up a chat.

    Be Open to Saying Yes (But Don’t Force It)

    A lot of my travel friendships have come from just saying yes to an invite or a plan. If someone asks if you want to grab food or join them for an activity, and you feel comfortable, go for it. But don’t force yourself to be social if you’re not feeling it – it’s fine to be selective.

    Meeting People Before You Even Travel

    Sometimes, connections start before you even leave home. Travel forums, Reddit communities, and Facebook groups are full of solo travellers looking to connect, share advice, or even meet up. I’ve had conversations in travel forums that led to real-life meetups in different countries months later.

    If you like the idea of meeting people in advance or just want to chat with other solo travellers, consider joining a group like Sisterhood of Solo Travellers – a community for women over 40 who love solo travel, share advice, and connect before hitting the road!

    A group of silhouetted travellers standing on a hill against a golden sunset, symbolising the natural ways to meet peole while solo traverlling.

    Final Thoughts: Meeting People When You Solo Travel

    Meeting people while travelling solo isn’t about having the perfect strategy – it’s about being open to the experiences that come your way. You don’t have to be the most outgoing person in the world, and you definitely don’t need to force interactions. Treat solo travel like real life, stay open to opportunities, and you’ll find connections happening naturally.

    And if you don’t meet anyone? That’s okay too. The best part of solo travel is that you can make every experience exactly what you want it to be.

    Have you met people while travelling solo? Share your experiences in the comments!

    Before You Go…

    If you’re planning your own solo trip my Solo Travel Lifeline might come in handy. It’s like having a travel buddy in your pocket – without the awkward small talk.

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    Check out my blog post about Solo Travel in Austria for inspiration!

    Need a ready-made plan? Check out my 3-day travel itineraries for popular destinations – they’re packed with tips and can save you a lot of guesswork. If you want something more personalised, I also offer custom itinerary planning to make sure your trip goes smoothly.

    Need a place to stay? I’ve got some handy affiliate links for Booking.com and Expedia to make planning a bit easier. If you book through them, I may earn a small commision – at no extra cost to you – so you’d be helping a fellow traveller out.

    And if you want real time action, follow me on Instagram, TikToK or join the Sisterhood of Solo Travellers on Facebook for tips, stories, and the occasional travel mishap.

    If you’re interested in Southeast Asia, you might enjoy my posts about Phu Quoc and Siem Reap.

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