Tag: ethical travel

  • Flamingos and Fkery: Paradise Ruined by Tourism

    Flamingos and Fkery: Paradise Ruined by Tourism

    Walking Through Paradise… Kind Of

    This all started because I was walking across a paradise island, or what was once paradise. It still doesn’t have cars, but the sandy tracks are now swarming with golf buggies and quad bikes. Tourists drive them like they’re in some desert go-kart track, flying around with music booming from portable speakers. Everything is slowly being eaten by resorts.

    It’s like watching something beautiful get bulldozed one beach bar at a time.

    I’m Part Of The Problem

    And I’m here. I know that. I’m walking it, photographing it, adding to it. I’m part of the problem. Even though I stay in eco places and eat local and support small businesses, that doesn’t erase me. Doesn’t make me some kind of backpacker saint. It just means I’m slightly more aware of the fuckery I’m contributing to.

    Travel Still Matters

    The thing is, travel matters. It broadens your mind. It shows you other people, other cultures. It teaches you that every place is valid. Every person is valid. Every culture is as valid as your own, and maybe some deserve more space, because they’ve been silenced or stamped out by the kind of culture I was raised to believe in.

    Some countries raise people to believe they live in the best place on Earth. And they believe it, not because it’s true, but because they’ve never seen anywhere else. I know because I grew up in 80s Britain being spoon-fed imperialism and exceptionalism with every school lesson and morning assembly.

    Maybe that’s why I still travel. Not just because it broadens my mind, but because it helps me understand the harm my part of the world has caused.

    It’s Still A Privilege

    And I know how much privilege it takes to even have that perspective. I have two passports. Travel is easy for me, even if I fight for every last scrappy bit of it. Even if I’m struggling or budgeting, even if I sleep in weird places and wash my clothes in a bottle, I still have the right documents. I still get waved through. That’s a privilege I never take lightly.

    Paradise, Paved

    This is what I keep circling back to. This island is popular because it feels like paradise. No roads, no stress, just saltwater and stillness. But as the allowed parts get crammed with golf carts, resorts, and booming bars, what are people even coming for anymore? If the whole reason for being here is stripped away, will they still come? And who’s really benefiting? I get it. Tourism brings income. It helps local people. But not everyone profits equally. Where I’m staying now is a small eco resort, owned by someone local. Last year it was full. This year, I’m the only one here. Everyone’s in the big resorts instead. And I doubt many of those are locally owned.

    Flamingos. Just Flamingos.

    I was stomping along the sand, when I stopped. There they were. Flamingos. Actual flamingos, just standing in the water like pink bits of surrealism. About 20 or 30 of them, scattered in the shallows.

    And in that whole long stretch of beach, no one else was even looking. Most people were over the other side of the island, drinking and partying. But down here, where the flamingos were, it was just me.

    Like… why are you even here?

    Why come all this way if you’re not going to look at the flamingos?

    Flamingos And Fuckery

    And that was the moment. That weird quiet moment where it all hit me at once. The beauty, the rage, the contradiction of being here at all. Of loving a place that’s being ruined while knowing you’re one of the people helping ruin it.

    Flamingos and fuckery. That’s all it was. That’s all it is.

    Before You Go

    If you’re planning your own solo trip my Solo Travel Lifeline might come in handy. It’s like having a travel buddy in your pocket – without the awkward small talk.

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  • Solo Travel in Battambang, Cambodia: Not Quite Bliss, But Definitely a Story

    Solo Travel in Battambang, Cambodia: Not Quite Bliss, But Definitely a Story

    After two weeks in Siem Reap, I was ready to move on and travel solo in Battambang. Not because I’d had enough, but because my hotel was booked out for Chinese New Year and I had to leave. I’d been ill, I’d seen a lot, and although I probably could’ve wandered Angkor Wat for another month, it was time. Phnom Penh was my end goal, but Battambang felt like a stop I shouldn’t skip, mainly for the Killing Caves.

    Getting there wasn’t awful, just not straightforward. I wasn’t well enough to navigate coaches, especially with most options running through Phnom Penh first. That seemed pointless, so I booked a taxi. It cost £60 and took about three and a half hours. The driver stopped so I could go to the loo halfway, which is common in Cambodia. There’s always somewhere to stop, usually near someone’s cousin’s café.

    The Hostel I Ended Up In (And Shouldn’t Have)

    Accommodation was tricky because of Chinese New Year. The only place I could find with a pool, which is important to me especially in cities, was a hostel. I’d never stayed in one before. The moment we started driving there, I knew I’d made a mistake. It wasn’t in the main part of Battambang but tucked away down rough streets full of stray dogs and kids setting off firecrackers.

    The hostel itself had a good atmosphere and I used the pool every day, which was probably the best thing about it. But I was absolutely convinced they had bedbugs. They didn’t offer any vegan food, and no one really knew what vegan meant. There was a fully vegan place in town, but the food was honestly dreadful. I did later discover that the gym café next door to the hostel could make something vegan-ish, but I had no idea it was there at first. It was very random.

    View looking up at the opening in the Killing Caves of Battambang, Cambodia, where victims were thrown to their deaths during the Khmer Rouge regime.
    Looking up from inside the Killing Caves in Battambang. This opening at the top of the cave was where victims were thrown during the Khmer Rouge era.

    Phare Ponleu Selpak : The Circus With a Story

    The circus was a real highlight. It’s not the main one you see in Siem Reap. This is the original school where the performers are trained. It was founded by a French woman and Cambodian refugees after the Khmer Rouge, to give kids access to education, creativity, and a different kind of future.

    The show I saw was called Red, and it was about the Khmer Rouge. It was powerful and emotional. There was no narration, just raw physical storytelling. I had a vague idea of what was happening, but even without full context, you could feel the weight of it.

    Just a heads-up: The next photo shows human remains from Cambodia’s Killing Caves.

    Glass case filled with human skulls and bones inside a memorial at the Killing Caves of Battambang, Cambodia.
    A sobering memorial at the Killing Caves of Battambang. A stark reminder of Cambodia’s dark past under the Khmer Rouge.

    The Killing Caves: Confusing, Sad, but Worth It

    This was the main reason I went to Battambang. My tuk-tuk driver dropped me at the bottom of a mountain, pointed vaguely to the top, and said, “Come back down those steps for 5 o’clock to see the bats.” That was the extent of the plan.

    So up I went, completely unguided. I had no idea which caves were which. There were multiple temples, shrines, and detours. At one point, I found a cave that I was definitely sure was a killing cave. There was a glass cabinet filled with skulls, which made it very clear.

    This cave was one of the Killing Caves, used by the Khmer Rouge during their regime (1975 to 1979). Prisoners were taken to the top of the mountain and thrown through a hole in the roof to die below. Some were killed beforehand, others were beaten and left to fall. Their remains were later collected and placed in the cabinet I’d just seen. The cave felt quiet, confusing, eerie, and overwhelmingly sad. I wasn’t prepared for how it would feel to stand in a place where something so horrific had happened: it was hard to process.

    I left, walked up further and came across a disused temple at the top of the mountain, which offered a lovely view and had monkeys everywhere. There were stalls selling drinks, insects, and snacks, but nothing vegan. I was thirsty and tired, so I bought a drink and wandered for a bit.

    Eventually I found what I think was the actual cave temple. It was beautiful, peaceful, and one I’d really wanted to see. But I rushed through it, thinking I had to get down the steps for 5pm sharp.

    The Bats (Eventually)

    I flew down the stairs thinking I was about to miss something amazing. The tuk-tuk driver had stationed himself far from the action, at what I suspect was his friend’s beer stall. I sat with him because I didn’t know any better, until around 7pm when someone finally shouted, “The bats are coming out!”

    I ran over and managed to catch them, just. It wasn’t quite the spectacular moment I’d expected. It was pitch dark, you couldn’t really see much, and the smell coming out of the cave was absolutely vile. Still, it was an experience.

    Wandering Battambang

    I spent the next day or two walking around. The river didn’t have the charm of Siem Reap’s. Battambang felt hectic and heavily polluted. I was still sick, which made it harder to enjoy, and Chinese New Year meant karaoke, fireworks, and pigs laid out as offerings on tables everywhere. There were some interesting statues on roundabouts, and I wandered around to look at a few. I’m sure there were other things to do, but I didn’t find them.

    I skipped the bamboo train. It just sounded like a tourist trap and not in a fun way.

    Monkeys near the temple viewpoint above the Killing Caves in Battambang, with a hazy view over the city in the distance. Seen during Solo Travel in Battambang
    A quiet moment at the temple viewpoint above the Killing Caves. Monkeys wandered freely as the city of Battambang stretched out in the distance.

    Getting to Phnom Penh

    When it was time to leave, I booked a cheap ticket, about five or six pounds. A tuk-tuk picked me up and took me somewhere vague where a tiny minivan turned up, already packed. They squeezed in all of us and our bags, and off we went.

    The trip took hours and stopped constantly. By the time we arrived in Phnom Penh, I was exhausted and the air was thick. I tried to use Grab but realised I should’ve just taken a local tuk-tuk after a 40 minute wait. The pollution was overwhelming. At the time, Phnom Penh had a higher air pollution rating than Delhi. You could feel it in your lungs the second you stepped outside.

    Statue of Ta Dambong, the guardian figure of Battambang, holding a staff at a roundabout in Cambodia. Seen during Solo Travel in Battambang
    Ta Dambong Wat Pith: Battambang’s iconic guardian statue at the heart of the city.

    Final Thoughts

    Solo travel in Battambang wasn’t the easiest part of my Cambodia trip. I’m glad I went, but I wouldn’t rush back. If you go, take a guide for the Killing Caves, don’t expect much in the way of food if you are vegan, and be ready for vague instructions and unexpected smells. But sometimes, that’s just part of the story.

    Before You Go…

    If you’re planning your own solo trip my Solo Travel Lifeline might come in handy. It’s like having a travel buddy in your pocket – without the awkward small talk.

    Need a ready-made plan? Check out my 3-day travel itineraries for popular destinations – they’re packed with tips and can save you a lot of guesswork. If you want something more personalised, I also offer custom itinerary planning to make sure your trip goes smoothly.

    And if you want real time action, follow me on Instagram, TikToK or join the Sisterhood of Solo Travellers on Facebook for tips, stories, and the occasional travel mishap.

    If you’re interested in Southeast Asia, you might also enjoy my posts about Koh Lanta and Phu Quoc.

    If you’re planning a big trip, don’t miss my guide on how to survive long-haul flights in economy—it’s painfully honest and full of hard-earned wisdom.

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